As I Divorce Attorney I can 100% say this article is spot on! What I hear all the time is "I'm just not happy anymore." Not the big things- unless it is alcoholism, drug usage, mental health issues, or infidelity. Love is a choice. If you want to see if there is a chance to keep it together, you have to start with YOU. Changing YOU. Check out my friend, Stacey Martino who is an expert at saving marriages. This is her philosophy and I agree it is the right place to start if you want to even think about saving your marriage. Even if you Spouse has already moved out. In the end, you are the hero of our own life I you will know when you are ready to shut that door. It is ok to be stuck.. just don't stay there.